What's The Difference Between Trauma and Anxiety?
Anxiety and trauma are two of the biggest disruptors to our peace of mind. But what distinguishes one from the other? How do we know when something is anxiety we should address with calming strategies versus trauma we should treat with trauma therapy? Let's explore the layers of anxiety and trauma and how they manifest in our lives.
Seeking Clarity Between Anxiety and Trauma
Given the interplay between anxiety and trauma, it's important to differentiate between them when figuring out how best to treat them. Identifying the root causes of your distress can pave the way for targeted interventions and holistic healing.
Anxiety: Body-Based Worry About The Future
Anxiety is a pervasive sense of unease, worry, or fear about potential future events. The key here is that it lies in the future. You have a big presentation coming up at work, and your mind races with thoughts of worst-case scenarios. What if you stumble over your words? What if your ideas fall flat? This anticipation of doom is all anxiety.
Sometimes anxiety is more nebulous. Sometimes it's a sense of creeping anticipation that doesn't settle on one thing. Sometimes it settles in your body as stomachaches, headaches, or exhaustion.
Consider Sarah, a college student facing finals week. As she stares at her textbook, her heart races, palms sweat, and a knot forms in her stomach. She's overwhelmed by the looming threat of failure, unable to shake it off. That's anxiety most of the time.
But there can also be an interplay with trauma.
Unpacking Trauma: Injuries From The Past
Trauma, on the other hand, is rooted in past experiences—those memories that cling past their initial impact. Alex survived a car accident ten years ago. Despite the passage of time, the screech of brakes still sends shivers down his spine, transporting him back to that moment. His body tenses, heart racing, reliving the experience as if it were yesterday. This reaction is the hallmark of trauma.
But trauma doesn't show up as flashbacks and obvious triggers for most people. It's more subtle for most of us. And yes, most people do have trauma.
Long term, low-grade trauma can weave together a complex experience of distress. Consider an person who grew up in a household with consistent emotional neglect and invalidation. Over time, this leads to feelings of unworthiness, mistrust, and fear of intimacy. These emotional wounds often manifest as pervasive feelings of anxiety, hypervigilance, and difficulty forming healthy relationships. It can be tricky to discern anxiety from trauma in this case, and working with a skilled trauma therapist can be illuminating.
Anxiety vs. Trauma: Present vs. Past
The big difference between trauma and anxiety is where the "big scary" thing lies in the passage of time. Anxiety is future-focused, set on what might happen, and keeps us in a web of anticipation and apprehension. Trauma looks back at events already part of our personal history, influencing our present reactions because of past wounds.
To put it simply, anxiety is the anticipation of what's to come while trauma is the echo of the past. Both can create strong visceral reactions in the present. However, it's not always as clear cut as we'd like it to be.
Overlapping Symptoms of Trauma and Anxiety
Anxiety and trauma often blur together, and they're not as separate as some people like to think. Consider someone who survived a natural disaster. They may struggle with anticipatory anxiety of future disasters and upsetting memories and images of the disaster itself (trauma). In such cases, the line between the two becomes blurred, each feeding into the other.
Trauma can be much less concrete than a disaster or single upsetting event. Take someone who experienced inconsistent caregiving during childhood. They may grapple with fear of abandonment or rejection (anxiety) alongside unresolved feelings of loss and insecurity stemming from their early experiences (attachment trauma). Again, the trauma and anxiety reinforce each other, amplifying feelings of distress and unease.
The Best Therapy For Anxiety And Trauma
The great news is there are many science-proven treatments for both anxiety and trauma. You can read about many of the most effective treatments here. One of our favorites is EMDR therapy, a neuroscience-based therapy that helps people reprocess upsetting memories and eliminate triggers. Other approaches, such as holistic therapy and CBT, are also good for alleviating symptoms.
Moving Forward With Anxiety and Trauma Therapy: Your Path to Healing In California & Florida
If you find yourself overwhelmed with anxiety or gripped by trauma, help is within reach. Therapy offers safe and accessible support for exploring your emotions, unpacking experiences, and working toward healing. As licensed therapists specializing in anxiety and trauma, we invite you to take the first step on your journey to emotional wellness. Schedule a free consultation today, and let's start healing together.
