Places to Make Lesbian Friends in Los Angeles: A Guide For Queer Women
Happy Pride!
In a city as big and busy as Los Angeles, it can be hard to find places to make other queer friends. But if you know where to look, there are opportunities to meet and connect with other queer women. Whether you're new to the area or looking to expand your social circle, here are places our LGBT therapists recommend to meet other lesbians and sapphics to make new friends.
Angel City Football Club Soccer Games: Queer Female Sports Fan Heaven
Attending Angel City Soccer games offers more than just spectating. It provides an opportunity to be part of the community surrounding this new-ish team. As a supporter, you'll join a crowd of passionate fans who come together to cheer on the players. Whether you're a die-hard soccer enthusiast or simply looking to connect with other queer women, Angel City Soccer games offer an electric atmosphere where lesbians and queer women can come together and bond.
Pro Tip: If you're up for extra adventure, we recommend getting a ticket in the supporters sections. But be prepared to stand for the whole game and learn the team chants and cheers. We also recommend packing a pair of earplugs in case you're near the taiko drum line. Oh, and definitely figure out where to park ahead of time. We recommend parking up the line and taking the Expo.
The Ruby Fruit Wine Bar: Relaxed Wine & Bites for the Sapphically Inclined
Nestled along Sunset Boulevard, The Rubyfruit Wine Bar offers a relaxed atmosphere for sapphic women to gather and unwind. With its curated selection of wines, it's a great spot to enjoy a glass while mingling with fellow patrons. They've got a great menu of food too. This makes it less of a hookup culture scene and more of a community gathering place. Whether you're stopping by for an after-work drink or a weekend outing with friends, The Rubyfruit provides a welcoming space for queer women.
Pro Tip: Scope out how busy it tends to be on the day you want to go, as there can be a line at the door when it opens.
Cuties Coworking & Social Meetups
Though the Cuties Coffee Shop was lost to the pandemic, the spirit of this inclusive hangout is carried on through their meetups. This black-owned LGBT social organization is trying to fill the void of LGBT spaces no centered around alcohol or hookups. Sign up for their mailing list and see what events appeal to you. Want to cowork with other LGBT folx? They've got coworking meetups around the city throughout the week at different locations. Want to meditate with other queer people? They've got monthly meetups for that.
Honeys Bar
If you want a more clubby atmosphere, Honeys is a popular lesbian bar located in the heart of Downtown Los Angeles. Known for its energy and diverse crowd, Honeys offers a range of events and activities. They host dance parties, trivia nights, and live music performances. Whether you're looking to dance the night away or relax with a drink, Honeys is a fantastic place to meet other queer women.
Pro Tip: Honeys might be more of a dating spot than other places on this list, but wanted to include it because we love supporting lesbian and queer female spaces.
Stud Country: Line Dancing with a Twist
For those who enjoy a bit of country flair, Stud Country LA offers a place for queer folks of all genders to kick up their heels in style. Situated in the heart of Los Angeles, this line dancing group caters specifically to the LGBT community, providing an inclusive atmosphere that's perfect for making new friends. Events are typically filled with both beginners and seasoned dancers, making it easy to find someone at your skill level to dance with. The group's focus on fun and community makes it an excellent choice for anyone looking to expand their social circle while enjoying some good old country music.
Pro Tip: Don't worry if you're new to line dancing. Stud Country often starts their events with a beginner lesson, so you'll be able to learn the steps before the floor opens up for choreographed dances.
LA Rider Dykes: On Two Wheels
For the more adventurous queer women, the LA Rider Dykes offers an empowering way to connect through a shared love of bicycling. This Instagram-famous group organizes regular rides through the scenic routes of Los Angeles and beyond, fostering a sense of camaraderie and freedom on the open road. Members range from seasoned cyclists to novices, all united by their enthusiasm for cycling and a community spirit. The rides often end with social gatherings, which can be a great way to wind down and get to know each other off the bikes.
Pro Tip: Follow their Instagram page to stay updated on upcoming rides and events. Even if you're not ready to hop on a bike, attending a meet-up or a post-ride gathering can be a fantastic opportunity to meet the group and learn more about this community.
Making Lasting Connections Between Queer Women and Lesbians In Los Angeles
Whether you're exploring local lesbian nightlife or looking for community events, these places provide a backdrop for forging new friendships and building a strong support network. But remember that it takes time and consistent small efforts to build a strong social network. Rome wasn't built in a day, so they say. Meaningful friendships also take time. There's no time like the present to start. So grab your calendar, mark down these locations, and get ready to sow the seeds of new queer female friends in LA.
Coriann Papazian, LMFT
Coriann is a lesbian therapist seeing teens & adults online in Los Angeles. She is trans-inclusive and neurodiversity affirming.
LGBT & Lesbian Therapy In Los Angeles
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